Risking Hatred

Here's a possible situation and a dilemma: Let's say you move to a new town and proudly fly the banner of your favorite sports team from your new home. Very quickly, though, you find out your neighbors hate that particular team and are very vocal about it. Wanting to make friends, not enemies, you remove the banner and from then on only cheer your team from the privacy of your own home.

Now, here's the dilemma: What if, instead of a sport's team, it's Jesus in your life that attracts the hatred of your neighbors? Do you practice your faith privately, or do you risk hatred by publicly living a life of faith? What would you do?

Receive
It's an interesting question. Some people say that if neighbors or acquaintances are hostile towards you, they will never allow you to tell them about God's grace and salvation. Therefore, if we are to witness to as many as possible, we should downplay our relationship with Jesus, for now, with the hope that in the future they will be less hostile and more receptive to hearing about Jesus.

On the other hand, if your relationship with Christ isn't evident in your interactions with your neighbors, are you really witnessing at all? Isn't it kind of like rejecting one relationship to embrace another?

Let's go to the Bible to find the answer.

When Jesus taught His disciples (and us when we read His Word), He told them plainly, "You will be hated by all for my name's sake" (Matthew 10:22, ESV). Over and over again, throughout the Gospels, Jesus takes it as a given that people will hate Him--and, by extension, those who follow Him. "If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world,therefore the world hates you" (John 15:18-19, ESV).

• Who was Jesus speaking to when He said these things about hatred?
• Jesus said that Christians would be hated. What reason did He give for the world's hatred toward His followers?
• What would cause the world to love you?

Did Jesus fail because people chose to hate Him instead of love Him? Of course not. And you aren't failing either when your neighbors hate you for living your Christian faith.

Reflect
As long as there is sin in the world, there will be hate in the world. Jesus explained that the world, "hates me because I testify about it that its works are evil" (John 7:7, ESV). In a sense, you and I who pursue a relationship with Christ act like lighting rods. Because the purity of Jesus exposes the sins of the world and because we seek to become Christ-like, we will attract the hatred of those who live in darkness (See John 3:20).

Respond
While we can't control the way other people will respond to us, we can control how we will respond to them. Jesus had a lot to say about how we should respond to those who hate us. Take a few moments with a concordance or an online Bible search engine and find some of those things Jesus taught. Now that you've been able to see what the Bible says about this issue, how would you advise a friend in the dilemma described above? How would you yourself act?